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Tuesday, 02 June 2009

  • Is swine flu that scary?

    I bet most of you have heard of SARS that burst out like 5 years ago, predominantly in Asia killing thousands and thousands of people. Fortunately, I was pursuing my college degree in this serene town called Madison, Wisconsin back in those days, and as a result I skipped the danger of being unaffected, the inconvenience of being quarantined even if you are just sneezing a bit because of minor allergy, and the hassle of putting a mask on whenever you leave you house 10 steps or more.

    My family and friends were not so lucky. My mum even had a full cartoon box of sanitary masks of different sizes stocked up in the living room during the time.

    Better be careful than sorry, she mentioned to me over the phone. Yes, she is right. I don't blame her. Can you imagine how much more peaceful this earth would be if everybody carries the same attitude?

    When the swine flu started to spread in the northern Americas continent, I started (almost reluctantly)to wear a mask on subway, on the bus, and...don't be too scared, not a work because I might scare my boss the heck out of his office. My caring boyfriend made me wear one as he has the same kind of mentality as my mum, and, as most of the people that are brought up in any Asian countries. Therefore, its his implicit sign of showing love that gives me courage to be able to put on that mask and walk into 10 millions of frantic stares from  strangers in the New York city.

    After all, I haven't been infected but the flu yet, but I have experienced quite a great deal of pleasant symtoms..

Friday, 01 August 2008

  • bedsheets

    How many bedsheets are you gonna sleep on throughout your life?

    Of course, it depends on how many places you travel, how often you do your laundry, how many homes you have...and for me, it was not until recently that I thought of this question when my "Winnie the Pooh" bedsheet that I have been using in the past n years was being ripped in the washing machine.  Finally, I had to let it go and go out to find my bedsheet. For some people, they don't really use bedsheet because it's not something necessary, but for me, I don't think I could ever sleep on a matress without a bedsheet.  So for me personally, a bedsheet is something that I need in my life, or rather, I would say I prefer to have a bedsheet then not when I have a choice. With this being said, finding the next bedsheet becomes my mission, and even I am quite busy at work and studying for my upcoming exam these days, I carved out enough time after work to make this happen.

    To give up my old bedsheet was more than replacing a household necessities, it was more of like saying goodbye to an old good friend and welcome a total new stranger into my intimate world.

    After a long search of hestitation and uncertainty, I finally bought this pale pink "Bellino" bedsheet at Macy's.  I loved it instantly.  Throughout the past 2X years, I had been in relationship with so many different types of bedsheets, floral prints, dark green from Ikea, pale blue from Target, washed out orange, yellow..you name it. There were a lot of different reasons each time when I bought those: some of them, I bought it for matching the decor of the rest of my room, or maybe I found the color very chic, others I just bought it as an extra bedsheet in case something goes wrong with my primary bedsheet, or simply for me to use it for the one night that my primary bedsheet was not available because it was being dried out after I washed it. Of course I have quite a few of bedsheets that I bought because they were onsale, and you would know that I don't really like them after a few use but haven't thrown them away because I kind of already get used to it.  Again, as I have already mentioned earlier, bedsheet is a must in my life and it's hard for me to lead a life without a bedsheet.

    Until I got this pale pink bedsheet I finally realize the fitness it has on my life.  I slept in it the first night, and the softness and light soothing color put me to sleep right away. I woke up the next day, feeling refreshed and well-rested.  I also found that paying a little extra for it was totally worthed it.

    Just some random thoughts. Do you like your bedsheet that you have now or have you put in much thought when you bought them? Do you find your bedsheet very similar to something else in life?

Tuesday, 06 May 2008

  • another day.

    another day, another exam.

    What will this ever end?

    Have you ever felt such an uneasy feeling that makes your heart beats and your stomach stirs?

    This is what I am feeling now.....stressed..>.<

    Just the other day I was talking to my roommate, telling her that I don't think I look good anymore, esp. when I was flipping through the pictures that i took in those old good times..and she said, " You know what that is? Stress..."

    Oh my....please go away, stress...I hate you!!

Friday, 12 October 2007

  • Be kind - I know it is hard...

    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

     

                                  

    ,One day a mother died.

    And on that clear, cold morning,

    in the warmth of her bedroom,
     the daughter was struck with
    the pain of learning that sometimes
    there isn't any more.

    No more hugs,

    no more lucky moments to celebrate together,
    no more phone calls just to chat,
    No more "just one minute"

    Sometimes, what we care about the most goes away.

    never to return before we can say good-bye,
    Say "I Love You."

    So while we have it . . it's best we love it . .
    And care for it and fix it when it's broken
    and take good care of it when it's sick.

    This is true for marriage
    .... and friendships ..

    And children with bad report cards;

    And dogs with bad hips;
    And aging parents and grandparents
    We keep them because they are worth it,
    Because we cherish them!

    Some things we keep --
    like a best friend who moved away
    or a classmate we grew up with.
    There are just some things that
    make us happy, No matter what.

    Life is important,
    and so are the people we know
    And so, we keep them close!

    I received this from someone today
    who thought I was a 'KEEPER'!

    Then I sent It to the people

    I Think of in the same way!

    Now it's your turn to send this to all those people

    who Are "keepers" in your life!

     

Monday, 20 August 2007

  • What a smile can do?

    This is a good story and is true, please read it all the way through until the end! (After the story, there are some very interesting facts!):


    I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree.

    The last class I had to take was Sociology.

    The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every human being had been graced with.

    Her last project of the term was called "Smile."

    The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions.

    I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway, so, I thought this would be a piece of cake, literally.

    Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald's one crisp March morning.

    It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son.

    We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband did.

    I did not move an inch... an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved.



    As I turned around I smelled a horrible "dirty body" smell, and there standing behind me were two poor homeless men.

    As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was "smiling".

    His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for acceptance.

    He said, "Good day" as he counted the few coins he had been clutching.

    The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation.

    I held my tears as I stood there with them.

    The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted.

    He said, "Coffee is all Miss" because that was all they could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be warm).

    Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.

    That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me, judging my every action.

    I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray.

    I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman's cold hand.

    He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, "Thank you."

    I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, "I did not do this for you. God is here working through me to give you hope."

    I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son. When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, "That is why God gave you to me, Honey, to give me hope."

    We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to give.

    We are not church goers, but we are believers.

    That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.

    I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in hand

    I turned in "my project" and the instructor read it.

    Then she looked up at me and said, "Can I share this?"

    I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class.

    She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed.

    In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my husband, son, instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom on the last night I spent as a college student.

    I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn: UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.

    Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read this and learn how to



     



    LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS - Never LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE.


    Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.

    To handle yourself, use your head.

    To handle others, use your heart.

    God Gives every bird its food, but God does not throw it into its nest.

    Keep this going


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